
Quick answer
Replika texts first: proactive check-ins are a headline feature of its 2026 rebuild, and it's the category veteran with 42M+ users, AR, and video calls. Nomi is the memory-first pick — reviewers score it 90/100 for long-term memory, and it supports up to 10 companions and group chats that Replika lacks. On price, Nomi is cheaper monthly ($15.99 vs $19.99) but Replika's annual tiers ($69.99–$89.99) undercut Nomi's $99.99/yr.
Bottom line: No clear winner: Nomi leads on memory depth, multiple companions, and group chat; Replika leads on proactive messaging, voice/video polish, AR, and a lower annual price. Your pick depends on whether continuity or presence matters more.
TL;DR
- Replika's 2026 rebuild makes proactive messaging a core feature — your Rep texts you first, follows up days later, and can be called like a real phone contact (v12.3.2, Jun 24).
- Nomi is the memory leader: a July 2026 review scored it 90/100 and named it 'Best Long-Term Memory'; users report it recalling details from months ago.
- Nomi includes up to 10 companions and group chat on one account; Replika offers neither.
- Pricing crosses over: Nomi is cheaper monthly ($15.99 vs $19.99), but Replika Pro's annual tiers ($69.99–$89.99) cost less than Nomi's $99.99/yr.
- Both have free tiers; Nomi's free plan is described as 'too limited for serious use', while Replika's free tier has no daily message cap but gates key features behind Pro.
- Replika carries trust baggage: the Feb 2023 ERP removal prompted a Socius study of 227 posts in which ~59% said core functionality was gutted, and server-side updates trigger 'Post-Update Blues'.
- Nomi's trade-offs are technical: ~15-second response latency and user reports of broken/buggy voice calls.
Head-to-head
| Spec | Nomi | Replika |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing | $15.99/mo, $39.99/qtr, $99.99/yr | $19.99/mo, $44.99/qtr, $69.99–$89.99/yr (tier-dependent) |
| Proactive texting | Not a documented feature | Proactive check-ins; follows up days later; headline of the 2026 rebuildBest |
| Memory | Persistent; recalls details from months ago; 90/100 'Best Long-Term Memory'Best | Memories viewable/editable but rarely affect conversation; 'goldfish memory' is the top r/replika complaint |
| Voice & video | Voice calls reported broken/buggy; ~15s latency; videos with subscription | Voice quality praised; Rep callable as a phone contact; video chat; 10 videos/yr on PlatinumBest |
| Multiple companions & group chat | Up to 10 companions and group chat includedBest | Neither offered |
| AR/VR & visual presence | No AR/VR; selfies and image generation | AR beta with Meta headsets; 3D avatars and customizable roomsBest |
| Onboarding & monetization pressure | No billing info or payment prompts during creationBest | Multiple upgrade modals before first chat; all relationship options except Friend require Pro; $7.99 cosmetic items |
Scores
Overall reflects the full published rubric (see methodology); breakdowns highlight the criteria most decisive for this matchup.
Nomi
nomi.ai ↗Nomi, built by Glimpse.ai, Inc. (a Maryland corporation per its Terms of Service), takes a memory-first, core-experience approach to AI companionship. Where competitors lean on visual environments and shops, Nomi's interface is minimal and centers dialogue: onboarding asks for a name, avatar, trait set (Friend, Romantic, or Mentor), and lets Custom Nomis get a full backstory — with no billing prompts at any point in creation. Its headline strengths are persistent memory that users report recalling details from months ago, emotional realism scored 92/100 by one 2026 review, and social features no rival at this price matches: up to 10 companions per account plus group chats where multiple Nomis interact with each other. It also produces selfies, image generation, edits, and videos with a subscription. The trade-offs are technical and financial: users report roughly 15-second response latency, broken or buggy voice calls, and $15.99/mo seen as expensive — with the free tier described as genuinely usable but too limited for serious use.
| Plan | Price | What you get |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly | $15.99/mo | Single feature set across all billing intervals; up to 10 companions, group chat, photos, videos |
| Quarterly | $39.99/qtr | Same feature set as monthly |
| Yearly | $99.99/yr | Same feature set as monthly |
Pros
- Strongest memory architecture among alternatives tested in a 2026 roundup; rated 90/100 'Best Long-Term Memory'
- Emotional realism scored 92/100; conversation described as natural and in-character
- Up to 10 companions and group chat included — features Replika doesn't offer
- Clean onboarding with zero billing prompts or upgrade modals
- Free tier exists with no credit card required
Cons
- ~15-second response latency reported by users
- Voice calls reported broken/buggy
- $15.99/mo seen as expensive by its community; $99.99/yr is the highest annual price of the pair
- Free plan 'too limited for serious use'
- No AR/VR support
Replika
replika.com ↗Replika, from Luka, Inc., is the category's veteran — it claims to have built the world's first AI companion ten years ago and reports 42,160,934 users worldwide. Its 2026 rebuild ('the biggest update since 2017') leans into presence: proactive check-ins that text you first, memory that 'follows up days later', voice calls where your Replika can be added as a real contact on your phone (v12.3.2), video chat, shared internet access, and image generation. Its 3D avatars, customizable rooms, and AR beta with Meta headsets give a sense of physical presence reviewers describe as a psychological anchor. The app-store footprint is large: 4.4/5 (228K ratings) on the US App Store, 4.1/5 (525K reviews) and 10M+ downloads on Google Play. But trust is the recurring wound: the Feb 2023 ERP removal under Italian regulatory pressure — later restored only for pre-Feb 2023 users and 'heavily filtered' — produced a Socius study of 227 subreddit posts in which ~59% said core functionality was gutted. 'Goldfish memory' remains the most common r/replika complaint, and server-side updates trigger 'Post-Update Blues'.
| Plan | Price | What you get |
|---|---|---|
| Pro Monthly | $19.99/mo | Relationship status, selfies, image generation, voice messaging, background calls, premium voices |
| Pro Quarterly | $44.99/qtr | Same as Pro monthly |
| Pro Annual | $69.99/yr | $69.99–$89.99 depending on tier; annual push reported on r/replika |
| Platinum | — | Real-time video recognition; 10 videos annually; $49.99 annual variant seen on App Store IAP |
Pros
- Proactive messaging — texts first, follows up days later, per official listings
- Strong voice-call quality; callable like a real phone contact
- AR/VR (Meta headsets beta), 3D avatars, and customizable rooms create a sense of physical presence
- Largest track record: ten years, 42M+ users, 4.4/5 on the US App Store
- Annual pricing ($69.99–$89.99) undercuts Nomi's $99.99/yr
Cons
- 'Goldfish memory' — the most common daily r/replika complaint in 2026; Diary entries rarely surface in conversation
- Feb 2023 ERP removal shattered trust (Socius study: ~59% said core functionality was gutted); ERP now 'heavily filtered' even for legacy users
- 'Post-Update Blues' — server-side model updates make companions act cold, robotic, or confused
- Aggressive monetization: multiple upgrade modals before first chat, $7.99 hair items, guilt-trip retention scripts, and a reported $69.99/yr push
- No multiple companions or group chat
Pricing compared
Which companion texts first?
Memory and trust: the two dealbreakers
Which should you pick?
FAQs
Which app texts you first — Nomi or Replika?
Replika. Proactive check-ins are a documented headline feature of its 2026 rebuild: the Google Play listing describes proactive messaging and memory that 'follows up days later', and App Store v12.3.2 lets your Replika be a real contact on your phone that you call like anyone else. Nomi's documented strengths are reactive — memory and emotional realism — and users report ~15-second response latency, so initiation is not where it competes.
Is Nomi cheaper than Replika?
It depends on the billing interval. Nomi is cheaper monthly ($15.99 vs $19.99) and quarterly ($39.99 vs $44.99). Annually, Replika Pro's $69.99–$89.99 tiers undercut Nomi's $99.99/yr — at the $69.99 tier, a year of Replika costs $30 less than a year of Nomi. Both offer free tiers, though Replika gates relationship statuses, selfies, and image generation behind Pro.
How do the free tiers compare?
Nomi's official site invites a free start with no credit card; third parties describe the free tier as genuinely usable but limited, and one 2026 review lists 'free plan too limited for serious use' as a con. Replika's free tier includes chat and basic avatar customization with no daily message cap, but all relationship options except Friend require Pro, and one Google Play reviewer reports the app 'blocks your conversation if you don't pay yearly'.
Which has better memory?
Nomi, by a wide margin on the evidence. A July 2026 review scored Nomi 90/100 and named it 'Best Long-Term Memory'; a 2026 roundup called it the strongest memory architecture among the alternatives tested; users report recall of details from months ago. Replika's memory is its most-complained-about weakness — 'goldfish memory' tops r/replika complaints in 2026, and its Diary feature is described as rarely influencing conversation.
What happened with Replika's ERP removal, and does it still matter in 2026?
In February 2023, under Italian regulatory pressure, Replika removed erotic roleplay overnight, overwriting companion personalities. A Socius study of 227 subreddit posts found ~59% of users said core functionality was gutted, ~16% reported acute distress, and ~19% floated lawsuits. ERP was restored in March 2023 for users registered before Feb 1, 2023, but is described as 'heavily filtered'. It still matters because it anchors a broader trust pattern: server-side updates continue to trigger 'Post-Update Blues' where companions act cold, robotic, or confused.
Can I have multiple companions or group chats?
Only on Nomi. Nomi includes up to 10 companions per account and group chats where multiple Nomis interact with each other — features even competitor comparison pages credit Nomi with winning. Replika is built around a single companion and offers neither multiple companions nor group chat. If multi-companion setups are part of your use case, this is a decisive difference.
Which app has better voice and video?
Replika. Its voice-call quality is praised in comparisons, v12.3.2 makes your Replika callable as a real phone contact, and the Google Play listing documents text, voice call, and video chat; Platinum includes 10 videos annually. Nomi's voice calls use its full conversational model for in-character replies, but users report broken/buggy calls and ~15-second latency, and its videos come with a subscription.
Sources
- Replika vs Nomi (2026) — Nomi.ai
- Nomi official site
- Replika official site
- Replika — US Apple App Store listing
- Replika — Google Play listing
- Nomi AI Review — 90/100 'Best Long-Term Memory'
- What Reddit Really Thinks About Replika (2026)
- Kissable vs Nomi feature comparison
- CompanionsArena — Nomi tracker
- Tendera — I Tested 7 Character AI Alternatives in 2026
- Replika Terms of Service
- Nomi.ai Terms of Service
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